What is Surrogacy?

What is a surrogate? There are different types of surrogacy, with the most common being gestational surrogacy and traditional surrogacy. Traditional surrogates use their own eggs; however, The Life Gifts surrogates are gestational carriers, often called “surrogate mothers” who carry pregnancies for intended parents but have no genetic link to the child.

While some people use “surrogate mother” casually, others prefer “surrogate” or “surrogate pregnancy” to better reflect the surrogate’s role. We use varied terminology to educate clearly and respectfully about this important family-building process.

How to Become a Surrogate

Becoming a surrogate is one of the most life-changing journeys you can take. But what does the process really look like? From understanding surrogate requirements and qualifications to applying and getting matched to carrying the baby and recovering postpartum, we’ve laid out every step to guide you.

What are the Surrogate Requirements?

• Be between 21–44 years old
• Have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery
• Be a citizen or permanent resident of the United States

What else? View the full list of surrogate requirements, complete the application and schedule an introductory call with one of our experts. We’re thrilled to know you and learn about your interest in surrogacy and, in that introductory call, we’ll tackle any other topics that could impact your qualifications to be a surrogate.

The The Life Gifts Standard for Surrogate Qualification

Unlike agencies that depend on rigid checklists or basic screenings to qualify surrogates, The Life Gifts uses a thoughtful and thorough approach, shaped by decades of experience, to identify the qualities and characteristics in courageous women that contribute to a healthy, successful surrogacy journey. Becoming a surrogate is deeply personal, and your process should reflect that.

Surrogate Support Program

Our groundbreaking All-In Surrogate Care and Compensation Program provides unmatched support at every stage of your surrogacy journey. With our proprietary Matching Matters™ process, highest surrogate pay, comprehensive legal and medical coverage, and dedicated emotional support, we ensure you’re fully protected and empowered from application through postpartum recovery—the way surrogacy should be.

What Medications Do Surrogates Take?

You will work with your intended parents’ fertility clinic who will direct and guide your medication protocol to prepare your body for a successful transfer of the embryo and healthy pregnancy. These medications could include: birth control pills to regulate your cycle, Lupron to suppress ovulation, Estrogen to thicken your uterine lining, Progesterone and Medrol to support implantation, low-dose aspirin to improve blood flow, and antibiotics to prevent infection. While this may seem daunting, The Life Gifts manages a team of experts, with the fertility clinic at the center of this stage of your surrogacy journey, to provide guidance throughout the entire process, ensuring you’re comfortable and supported each step of the way.

Surrogacy Laws By State

Most states support compensated gestational surrogacy, with the exception of Nebraska and Louisiana. We offer detailed guidance on the legal landscape in every state to help you understand your rights and navigate the process with confidence.

Surrogacy Terms

Surrogacy is a complex journey with legal, medical, and psychological terms that can feel overwhelming at first. Our surrogacy glossary breaks it all down into clear, easy-to-understand language so you can know everything you need to throughout your surrogacy process.

Refer a Surrogate

Know someone who would make an amazing surrogate? Refer her to The Life Gifts and earn rewards while helping another family grow.

Surrogacy Advocate Program

Our Surrogacy Advocate Program connects you with experienced surrogates who can answer your questions and share real insights. Get the support and perspective you need from someone who’s been there.